It’s hard making the first move. It puts us guys in a hard predictable situation and every word and enthusiasm matters as it will have the other person interpret it. As they read us like a book and have their judgements. That’s what scares me. It’s not the risk of making the first move… it’s the thoughts and judgements of the other person. Wasn’t it easier, like 50 years ago?

“hey baby, you. me. 10 o clock at Joe’s diner.”

“sure!”

WELL, not that easy. but its a point i want to make. now the guys have to think about how approach the person as well as transitioning into relations to the other person. gaahhhh!  hard.